Accepting My Height

A friend sent me this photo, which was taken by a stranger in the parking lot at Metcalf Rock after this group of us spent a day rock climbing there last Sunday.  I looked at this photo and was shocked to notice how short I am!  That day, all day, I never felt my climbing […]

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Accepting My Looks

I must be able to love myself first before I can expect someone else to fall in love with me. The first step to fall in love with myself is to accept myself unconditionally, warts and all. Here are three pictures of my face: front, front with glasses, side profile. I love how I have […]

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Love Is Possible

Some years ago, frustrated that I couldn’t find Mr. Right, I dreamed about the possibility of putting a huge personal ad in the world.  It just downed on me that with the internet tool, this dream can be turned into a reality.

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